Don't Compalin and Enjoy Life

 

Dearest blog reader, I know it's been ages since I wrote something and upload it here. Let me share a small secret, I never stopped writing but I stopped sharing. I shall share more this summer. An exciting news to share is "I finally graduated" no more deadlines and homework (well at least for a while). So, a new journey is about to start. When students graduate they are full of hopes to find a scholarship or an outstanding job they have always dreamed of. Well that is very normal,yet if they couldn't find that shouldn't be the end of the world and one should not stop trying until mission is accomplished.  We complain about every single problem we face and we have the habit of blaming others. Few days ago I thought with myself why do not we try to appreciate the little things we have.
Yala come with me and let's imagine some stuff.

If we have not found a good job yet, we shall enjoy this free time. No responsibilities,not even studying. Why not reading, writing, painting, going out with friends, practicing a hobby that you pushed aside because of studying,spending more time with your family, do some volunteering or something you have always wanted to do but never had enough time for it because of classes. Belive me later you will wish for some free time that you cannot get because of working.
Something else that we faced awhile ago is shortage in petrol. All what we did was directly complaining and blaming others. So i say why do not we use cars less than usual and try to walk a bit more. (Don't tell me it's hot and the weather is not helping,I won't buy that) if you want to do it then you will no matter what. I do that, for places with long distances I drive and I walk most of the time when there is no need for car. What about electricity?   I remember last month we faced some problems with electricity. I seriously loved the fact there was no electricity  (call me crazy,mad or sick, it's ok) I actually enjoyed my nights without electricity.  I started to notice the stars and the moon again. In the crowded cities one forgets that stars and moon still exist.These are very little examples that I personally try to find some joy in them. I turn complaining about these little things to appropriation.  Some might say , she is too dreamy or she enjoys imagining. You are right I  actually do, but through this I learned how to appreciate the little things and instead of complaining I look for the nice things in them.
Let's try to find the little joy in the things we usually complain about and you will see that life is not that bad after all.